Introduction
Home life will be sweeter if the head of the family, who is the nail in the coffin, is happy. Husbands and wives need to understand each other well in order for the relationship to continue with affection.Giving up on a few things will strengthen the relationship. Makes peace and happiness last. Home life will be sweeter if the head of the family, who is the nail in the coffin, is happy.
- Opinion: There may be disagreement between husband and wife on a few issues. At that point one has to value the other’s opinion. Do not hesitate to follow the good stuff that is in it. We need to value good opinion without giving place to ego. Must have the maturity to accept with tolerance even if the opinion of one of the two is objectionable. Then you have to maturely explain the pros and cons of it.
- Arrogance: Do not express patriarchal attitude if the husband is the only earner. Emphasis should be placed on the wife’s opinion on the family financial situation and budget. The arrogance of spending her income anyway should not arise in the mind. The wife who guides the family should know about the family economy. The wife should also share her budget with her husband when she goes to work. The wife should keep in mind that her importance in the family has not diminished. Only then will home life move happily.
- Understanding: Do not exaggerate iconic things. One thing that is normally visible in the eyes of the husband may seem great to the wife. It should be understood by the husband. The wife’s feelings should be valued and the matter should be approached. The problem will only get worse if you say, ‘She takes small things for granted’. Relationships can rupture.
- Respect: One should keep quiet during arguments and conflicts between husband and wife. Avoid talking about other members of the family when the two are involved in a word conflict. Swearing at them and slandering them can make the problem worse.
- Attitude: The husband should respect his wife’s household as well as his family members. Give them the respect they deserve. Do not expect her to give only the respect she deserves to her husband and give the same respect to his wife.
- Freedom: Freedom of expression must be maintained in both husband and wife. One, the other should not be an obstacle to freedom. ‘I’m only going around town with friends whenever I can. But you should only be a cage.
- Time Management: If both husband and wife are commuters, they may have to rush to the office in the morning. Only then can depart without tension if you adhere to time management. Do not assume that the wife will take care of all the work. Husband and wife doing small things will bring comfort to the wife. Anything to get the job done quickly.
